we are currently going on 9 years total and 5 years married and 4 years dating of and on and we are not a perfect couple and i'm pretty sure that others think that we might be but we are no where near that.
We have been through many things together and I am proud to say that i wouldn't of wanted to go through it with any one else he is my best friend my right hand man my lover and best of all my life long partner. I love to say that in many ways the things we have gone through have made us completely know each others in's and out's but we don't we are still learning and growing together like I would assume many other couples are even after 20 + years of being married. I know I wish I could say that when we reach that many years of marriage but one thing I can say that I am proud of me and him got the opportunity to work out all of bads and goods and become a better couple with one another and now with how far we have come I am happy that god has allowed us to have this opportunity to be parents after being able to go through what we went through before getting forced to be married and forced to be with one another due to us having gotten pregnant. Like many of our friends they all had children at a young age all got married at a young age and most of them are still currently together which is great I wouldn't wish anything else on them. But one negative thing that I think is something that I would never have wanted to go through is what they have endured while having there children.
beign polynesian and in a world where the past still runs most of our parents lives till this day and don't get me wrong I know alot of it has to do with culture but there are positives and negatives thoughts that I have about that. My friends and there lives were turned up side down when they got pregnant and then told that they had to get married a lot of them were with there significant other for quite a while and others where only together for at the most 2 yrs which im not saying is wrong just in my eyes fast. But like I always say things happen for a reason and there was a reason why they were brought together maybe it was just to have there kids and then move on in life or maybe it was to have kids and learn at the same time but to me they have struggled a lot more then me and my husband did due to the fact that they had kids while learning and growing together which again I say is not a bad thing just as I would put it a struggle. But it also gave me an eye opener as to why I wasn't given that opportunity also I think that with the things me and my husband went through we would of split up and just raised our children in separate homes which I would of personally not have liked. I am truly blessed to have such a great man that has a wonderful patients and a great heart and has not given up on me through all the hell that I have put him through and definitely all the hell he has put me through we are still in love and happy and I pray that heavenly father still continues to bless us and helps us through our many differences. with that said I hope that every ones relations ships have been and still are blessed. smile always
Till next time ,
Hokulani
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